Sex

Being this is the first post, I thought I would talk about something that is often confused.... Sex..

Sex is a tricky thing.. Unfortunately, men and women sees sex differently. True, there are many exceptions to every rule and those exceptions will be discussed in later posts. This post will concentrate solely on the generalized notions of sex.

In the Bible, it says that sex should only be participated in union; in other words, by husbands and wives. It also says that women should give sex to their husbands as often as it is asked.

In my opinion, sex should only be entered by husbands and wives because sex creates unions and bonds, some of which that lasts even after the foreplay. When man and woman participates in sex, their body become one. That oneness can create emotions, thoughts, and memories.

For some women, sex constitutes love. There are some women that actually believes that a man will lay down with them only if he love them.

Some women actually believes that if a man mentions a condom or birth control that he truly cares.

Some women actually believes that if a man calls the next morning, or even the next day, that he truly cares.

Some women actually believes that if a man stays for the night and hold her during the night that he actually cares.

It goes back to the concept of game. Every one plays games differently. In poker, some can keep a straight poker face and some can tell all bluffs.

Not all men that calls, holds, stays, and mentions truly cares. They are just dawg good at the game.

Men, however, have many different views of sex. Some men sees sex as just that sex. Sex creates no bonds, no emotions, no ties. Sex is simply an action that two people participates in which parties finished pleased.

When a man calls, holds, stays, and mentions it is simply him playing the game. Men are not as dumb as females seem to believe.

When a man enters a relationship, he observes and analyzes the female. He sees what she responds to and use that to his advantage.

Now sometimes a man's purpose is to love, marry, and honor the female. But in some, their purpose is simply to get laid.

Men knows what they have to do to get what they want. Like mentioned early, it can either be a wife or a bed partner or any other.

If a man is looking for a bed partner, he will do whatever have have to do to get that female in his bed again. If a man is looking for a wife, he will do whatever he have to do to get that female at the alter.

Not all people have bad intentions.... you just have to know the game...

[to be continued]