Starting Roles

When you play a game, your role is defined at the beginning.

A quarterback is drafted for a team. Throughout the duration of that players' employment with that team, that player will be the quarterback. The quarterback's job is to throw the ball and sometimes even run. The quarterback will never be asked to kick the ball. That player's role is defined before playing any game.

Just like football, the same rules applies to relationships. Before the relationship, the roles are given. Just as a player can be drafted as the quarterback, running back, cornerback, etc, the female can be drafted as the friend, the sex buddy, the potential, the easy hit, etc.

Alot of females are drafted for a particular role [either by the man's or their own's choice] and either forgets or try to change their role and play another.

For example, if a female enters a relationship with a man while already having a boyfriend [or husband] that new man will not see that female as a potential. That man will see that female as an easy hit. That new man does not have to wine and dine her, nor does he have to listen. That new man just have to put it down. The role of 'the easy hit' is played by that female. Even if that female breaks up with her boyfriend [or husband] and trys to pursue something more sturdy with the new man, she still has her role as 'the easy hit'.

Alot of women gets their feelings hurt because they want to be more than an easy hit but are forgetting that they have already been cast.

Females know your roles before playing the game.